• clothing not optional

    by  • April 12, 2011 • articles, ebb • 3 Comments

    I’ve got a full day coming.  Three clients right in a row, class in the afternoon, consultant call in the evening.  I’m excited about all of it.  I love my work, my classes, and my business.

    And I want today to shine, baby.  SHINE.

    Not just glimmer, flicker, or glow. SHINE like midday on a mountaintop. DAZZLE like the Fourth of July over Manhattan.  BRILLIANCE and GLORY are the plan of the day.

    And so as I was getting ready, I said to myself,

    SELF?

    and I said,

    yessss?

    SELF, YOU HAVE A BIG DAY TODAY. SO HERE IS MY RECOMMENDATION:

    “GET DRESSED.  And do not wear anything you are not thrilled to have on your body.”

    Oh!  I said.

    I MEAN IT!

    Okay.  What does this mean?  I’m barely awake!  Clothes are clothes….but…

    And just like that, I picked a different shirt, different pants, a different bra, and different underwear.  I had been about to settle for an entire outfit that left me feeling…blah.  And I hadn’t even realized it until that moment.

    Because clothes do not just make the man.  Clothes make the mood.  Bad clothes make you slouch, they make you sigh, they make you feel like whaleshit.  They leave you thinking, “no one will like me,” or worse, “no one will see me,” and that is the kiss of death.

    Now I do not mean that you have to go all What Not To Wear on your ass.  You don’t.  I don’t care what thrills you, what you think looks good, what works for your time and place.  If you don’t want a push-up bra or skinny jeans, that’s fine with me.

    But hear this: what you wear matters.  It matters to you.  And looking good will change your energy, your productivity, your sass, your swagger, your creativity.

    So try it.  Today? Do not wear anything you are not thrilled to have on your body.  See what happens.

    PS: don’t know your style?  I met Elsa Issac last fall, and she has it nailed.  Check out her article on spring cleaning and finding your style here: http://blog.elsaisaac.com/4-easy-steps-to-a-happy-clutter-free-closet/

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    3 Responses to clothing not optional

    1. April 12, 2011 at 10:51 am

      Leela!

      1st off thanks for the shout out :)

      2nd… i really loved this because it is very similar to a recurring conversation i happen to have with myself!

      “this was my favorite part: But hear this: what you wear matters. It matters to you. And looking good will change your energy, your productivity, your sass, your swagger, your creativity.”

      preach girl… PREACH!

    2. admin
      April 12, 2011 at 1:40 pm

      Hey, Elsa! My pleasure. I used to always think looking good had to mean that I was trying to please someone else. SO not true. But pleasing myself is tricky! I love your site and your work. Without people like you I’d be thoroughly completely lost. Thank you for doing what you do!

    3. April 12, 2011 at 5:30 pm

      awww thanks Leela! you totally just made me smile!
      Marie (Forleo) talks a lot about having a ‘this is why i’m hot’ folder where we can put all the things/comments that re-affirm our passion… and your comment above is going straight into that folder!
      thanks a million :)

      xx